The Membership- with Hayley Rice

The information and community you need to go from chaos and confusion to calm, confident and conscious in your parenting.

Joining the membership will give you the tools you need to go from losing your cool on the daily, to being able to emotionally regulate with your children and be the guide they need as they grow.

Before I tell you how transformative the membership will be for you, here is who the membership is really for..

You are a caring and invested parent who tries so hard to do their best each day. You want the absolute best for your children especially when it comes to their emotions and development. You value the parent-child relationship hugely and want to strengthen it.

Are you experiencing any of these challenges and want tools, advice and support to overcome them?

  • You are struggling to navigate your child’s emotions with consistency and confidence?

  • You lose your cool often and regret it immediately after

  • You want your child to learn emotional regulation, boundaries and accountability but you don’t want to use shame or fear based approaches

  • You feel overwhelmed with all of the parenting advice out there and need some clear and simple strategies to get started

  • You know your parents did their best but your emotions were not held as a child. This makes it hard for you to parent your child’s emotions.

Learn with us in the membership

Take a course

Separate With Confidence
(Valued at €30)

The Key to Co-Regulation Webinar Replay
(Valued at €30)

UNSHAKEABLE Esteem and Confidence Course (Valued at €50)

ScreenWise Parenting
(Valued at €30)

21 Day Challenge webinars and content x 2
(Valued at €21 each)

Siblings Without Stress
(Valued at €30)

Understanding Anxiety in Children Course
(Valued at €50)

1,2,3 Battle Free Behaviour Webinar Replay
(Valued at €30)

Supporting Your Teen With School Transitions
(Valued at €30)

Shame Free Discipline
(Valued at €30)

Understanding Anger in Children Course
(Valued at €50)

Supporting Your Child Through Grief and Loss
(Valued at €30)

Unplug, Play, Thrive
(Valued at €30)

Total Value €462

Member’s Price €27/ month

See what others are saying about the membership

You are busy and you’re time is precious so I won’t waste it with fillers here, but,
here are some big problems when it comes to parenting and emotions right now…

Problem 1

You find yourself unable to stay regulated when your child becomes upset. You lose your cool and so begins the cycle of guilt and shame that you can’t seem to break.

Problem 2

Your are worried about your child and their emotions. This can cause you to live in a constant place of doubt and uncertainty when it comes to how to help them and your boundaries and parenting approaches.

Problem 3

You are aware that you were parented in a way that didn’t hold space for your emotions. You want better for your children but it is really hard to give what you didn’t receive. Staying on track and being clear on how to manage emotions is proving overwhelming.

If you can relate at all to the above, keep reading

Yes!

  • It is possible to learn to self-regulate and change your wiring to bring regulation during hard moments to your child. And it’s just amazing when you do!

  • You can absolutely break unhelpful patterns of parenting and create your own, new ones. What a gift for your children!

  • You can feel confident and clear on what you are doing when it comes to parenting any situation and make progress each day.

  • You may not have hours and hours to spend working on your parenting each week, but with the right, easy to access to impactful knowledge and support, you will find a momentum that brings about real change for you and your family

The membership transformation

  • You will feel certain in your personalised approach to parenting through knowledge, developmental insights and new, easy to implement strategies.

  • You will set and keep boundaries without reverting to shame, blame, punishments, rewards or fear based approaches.

  • You will find your calm even in the chaos and feel the power of pausing to respond, rather than reacting or impatience in the moment.

  • You will find compassion for yourself and your child as you progress and learn, letting go of old patterns and creating your new and improved ones.

Experience the transformation like Anna:

I just wanted to share a proud moment that happened last night- at 2am! I am buzzing and quite in awe of how it went down. My LO woke up for the toilet and began to shout and stamp around, randomly throwing things. When I told her to go quietly and stop throwing, this inflamed her. She turned on me saying “stupid mammy, I hate you, go away” etc. I could feel the exhaustion and sense of helplessness flood over me. In that moment I somehow took a second, I looked at her little face and ‘reframed’ as you talked about. I comforted her with acknowledging her feelings. I changed my voice to soothing mode and added some ‘umms’ and ‘ahhs’ as she ranted. I told her I loved her no matter what and that she was very tired. She immediately softened, collapsed in my arms and cried. Within a few minutes she was fast asleep.

As a parent who was never responded to with compassion in my hard moments, I feel amazed and so proud that I tapped in to this part of me. I just adore how it worked for her and the lovely closeness we felt in this hard moment instead of the usual disconnect I am used to. I can regulate myself and her. I can trust myself with this. I just wanted to post this in case anyone else is in the trenches with this at the moment. Stay strong and trust, it really does work!

What’s included in the membership?

  • All Courses

    Yes! When you join the membership you will have instant access to all of my courses and webinars (value €462) (*excluding collaborations). Whether you are looking for support on behaviour, anxiety, anger, esteem, school issues or siblings- I have a course ready for you! You also have access to two incredible 21 Day Challenges (value €21 each)!

  • Community

    Feeling alone as you navigate parenthood is no fun. Get connected and start sharing your struggles and successes with other like minded parents via the exclusive members only chat facility. Ask a question, give feedback and know you are not alone! Download the app (iOS and Android) for connection on the go.

  • Exclusive Content

    Each week I will bring you new content via my exclusive reels, member’s only podcast, and mindset corner content. Look out for our bi-weekly Q and A sessions, monthly trainings and guest speakers! You will get the right information when you need it most so you can disrupt your patterns and uncover your best parenting self.

  • Mindset Corner

    Cultivate compassion and lasting self-care practices in our mindset corner. This is the place where you learn to practice the pause and where change happens on a deep level! Use our journal prompts as you finally get to the root of dynamics. Go inward so you can consciously parent outward with connection, patience, love and playfulness!

Frequently Asked Questions:

  • Yes, we have a bi-weekly live Q and A session on zoom. These are a fantastic was to get more specific info about your situation and to chat with other parents too. These sessions are recorded so Hayley can answer your query even if you don’t join us live and you can watch the session back. They are a great addition to your webinar and podcast learnings. If you would rather ask a question in a discreet way, you can send Hayley a private message.

  • Congratulations on becoming a parent! We have members with children of all ages, many who have new babies, just like you. Some members have joined purely to start their reparenting journey and to connect with like-minded people as they do this. We have a vibrant ‘chat’ space where you can get to know people, our monthly trainings live on zoom and we also meet up in person from time to time!

  • Many of our members are parenting solo. The community would be an incredible support for you, a great place to get opinions before making decisions and for emotional support when things get hard. The content is relevant for a wide variety of parents and children and can be applied to any situation. Hayley is on hand to answer specific questions as needed and often enlists guest speakers for more depth on certain topics.

  • Yes, the membership is a month to month subscription that allows you to unsubscribe any time. Many members stay for long periods and others opt in and out as needed. This flexibility will allow you to make it work for you.

  • You can access everything on desktop or via the Circle app. The app is available on iOS and android and is easy to install.

I can’t wait for you to join us in the membership and become part of this amazing community!

If you invest in the membership community, you are investing in yourself and in your family, giving yourself the gift of information and support and your children the gift of a calmer, more consistent you.

The membership was born out of the work I was doing for years one-to-one with parents. I saw how the knowledge I had as a therapist could instantly relieve worries and doubt and empower parents to make real changes that lasted.

I have experienced first-hand what is like to go from constantly losing it and feeling horrendous about that, to finding a sense of calm and unlocking key insights that allow me to be responsive and patient in any situation. The journey I have been on has been life changing in so many ways and I can’t wait for you to get started with this too.

Not everyone can afford a coach or a therapist. My aim with the membership is to give you the support you need in an affordable, accessible way.

I know the membership will be as transformative for you as it has been for so many other parents.

I can’t wait to see you inside and go alongside you on this journey.